I totally understand, Have you tried Oragel?
There are natural teething tablets that you can buy at any supermarket or drugstore that may help as well. On the really bad nights, a dose of Tylenol always did the trick for my little one. Good luck!
My sister used Hyland's Teething Tablets ( I think that's what they're called) and swore by them so I started using them for my 6mo old....thry work great!
I'm exhausted, my little one is getting his first two bottom teeth and he won't sleep! I'm just so tired.