Toddler Tips

• Be consistent with everything. Children will respect and trust you more if you stand by your word.
• Don't threaten to do anything that you really will not follow through on. (i.e. "Mommy will leave you at the park if you don't get in your stroller now")
• Confirm a child's feelings and this will make him connect better with you. (i.e. "Adam is angry. Adam doesn't want to leave the park.  He wants to stay and play but it's time to go have dinner. If we hurry, we can read a book before bath time.)
• Give your toddler choices! Let him choose between two or three things on as many things as possible. This builds his/her self confidence and makes eating, dressing, or any other activity easier!
• Involve them in what you are doing around the house.  Not only can they help out a bit, but they also feel empowered and entertained!
• Remind them about when an event will occur (i.e., "Bathtime will be in 5 minutes").  Repeat this a couple of times to prepare them.  This will ease transition from play and will reduce tantrums.
• Research Preschool programs in the area.  Open houses usually take place in the Fall, and well-ranked schools usually have waiting lists.
• If you've had a rough day, put baby/toddler in the bath early...they will be happy to play a little longer in the water & you can rest your feet a while.
• Don't forget to reward your kids when they are behaving well.  Enjoying a quiet ride in the car? Notice your older child give your youngest a hug? Find your tot peacefully playing? Give them praise and kisses or treat them to a special activity if you are especially proud of their behavior.